Yo, I’m need some help looking for feminine clothing, or clothing that’ll give a feminine appearance, but still has a style similar to male clothing? What comes to mind is “tomboy” or “punk,” but I’m not sure if that’s quite right. I’m also incredibly thin, have a reverse-triangle body type, and I’m pre-HRT.
My first exposure to Trans people was on Jerry Springer and then later internet porn with shemales and trannies. I found it deeply disturbing because I knew I felt feminine, and wanted deeply to just be a girl, but had no idea how to express that.
Now I grew up in a very conservative home/town where no one and I mean no one was openly talking about LBGT issue, or if they did it was in the context of sin and going to hell.
And seeing these representations in Media made me think being trans was either people who can and should be taunted and ridiculed (thanks Jerry) or objectified and scorned as sexual object (fu porn).
It wasn’t until almost 2004 that I began to see my first few glimmers of trans people in a positive light on a trans support board. And I started to understand that might be what I had been feeling. But the shame was such from my early exposure to trans issues that I buried that down deep in the closet. Right when my body could have most easily transitioned, albeit I was already well into my 20s.
I never lost the dysphoria, which for me comes and goes on a cycle. And I still hate my body I feel trapped in. I might have had the courage to transition younger. But now I have decided not to and just live my life.
I wish I would have had the courage when I was younger to push move towards transition. Positive media would have helped give me that courage.
Don’t let anyone tell you how to live your life. It’s none of their damn business. No matter how much they try to make you feel shamed, ridiculed, or unwelcome. It’s their fault they can’t deal and I doubt they would let you tell them how to live their life. So fuck them all. Be you. Be beautiful. You are loved.
my hours got cut at work and im not getting paid for another 2 weeks anyone wanna help me make my car payment that is $250 i have like $2 in my bank account
yo, this friday bandcamp is going to be donating all of its share of proceeds to the Transgender Law Centre, so if you wanna support me and also a good cause make sure to buy some of my stuff this friday!!!!!!!
if you reblog a terf and then someone tells you, its your responsibility to tell the person you reblogged that post from, and thus it is their responsibility to tell the person they reblogged it from, and so on. It’s also your responsibility to tell your followers who reblogged that post, either directly by message or indirectly by reblogging the post and adding “op is a terf”. Deleting the post isn’t enough.
That’s how it needs to work to keep trans women safe. Reblog this please.
Wish this unemployed trans girl artist and musician a happy birthday by donating to my paypal while I’m looking for a job! There’s a really nice apartment that’s actually affordable that me and Liz want to move into and if we get it then money’s gonna be really tight until I get employed so any assistance would be greatly appreciated. In the meantime I need money for food and my hormones and feel very guilty asking for Liz to pay for it all. Please help!
Feel free to check out my comics here and my musichere!!!
It terrifies me that there’s so much raging passion in the lgbt+ community that insist on marginalizing asexuals and implying that asexuals don’t deserve to have safe spaces. There’s still so much acephobia so I just wanna know which blogs are genuinely supportive and a safe space for asexuals
Hey everyone I could use some help getting through to next week.
If you donated when I had that ticket and medical bill I really appreciate it, that all seems to be played off for now. I do however need help getting my account stable because my hours were cut in half and I have like $10 to my name. If you’re able to donate, anything helps, if not It’d be appreciated to share this around. Thank you all.
Donate to paypal: knights12247@gmail.com
Please, I need money for hormones gas and food
Hey I’m sorry to keep asking but I’m in the negative right now and I’m desperate for some help. Please share. Or donate if you can.
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