It can be pretty scary starting off your transition. Whether it be asking for that hair cut or shirt you really want, meeting with your doctor about testosterone, or coming out to the people around you, it can be a very overwhelming first step. Especially when you think about the long road ahead of you. But just remember that every day you change and grow and everyday brings you one step closer to your goal. Every day brings you one step closer to being who you want to be. Being who you are. So please hold in there. Don’t give up! Because the start of your transition is the start of the rest of your life and your life has so many wonders to share with you!
I’ve seen repeated accusations that trans people who post selfies are arrogant or narcissistic. Do you know why we do it? Every day, we go out and are told our gender isn’t valid; there is something wrong with our bodies. Every day we see ourselves represented on TV by cisgender people who will never know what it’s like to be trans. Every day we have to deal with comments online about how we are bathroom predators or sexually confused. When we are able to represent ourselves in ways that we want to, that actually allow us to articulate our own identities to the public, only then can we finally be affirmed. Selfies give us space to show how we want to be seen against the continuous misrepresentation. With selfies, we are finally allowed some autonomy over our bodies, narratives, and lives. I’m going to go ahead and take all the selfies I want to. You should too.
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