
this thursday ill be one year post-op top surgery. when i went to see my doctor a few months after surgery she told me my results were “not ideal” referring to my areolas having stretched (she cut them a lot smaller than what i turned out healing with). and tbh that comment really hurt me. Now im very self conscious. so i guess im trying to learn to embrace my different body and to show people that theres no one right way to look. ill be proudly showing my chest this summer, despite my insecurities. (p.s. i was told revisions will not fix my areolas as they will just stretch again)
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I personally think your chest looks fine, as is. But I can completely understand how that comment would have stung a bit. I would try to view it like an artist looking at a painting they’ve done. If anything happens slightly askew from what they envisioned they dislike it because it’s just not what they envisioned. But it’s still art, and still beautiful, just not what was planned, and that’s okay.
Your chest looks fine, I’m jealous of your results. You’re killing the game.
– Jesse